Question: Should one think of the family he was born into on his birthday?

Sri Chinmoy: It is up to the individual. The most important thing is that one should think of one’s own soul and pray to the Inner Pilot for Light, more Light, abundant Light and infinite Light.

From:Sri Chinmoy,The soul's special promise, part 2, Agni Press, 1999
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